Communication is very important in every relationship…particularly, there are words, phrases and sentences that either partner does not like to hear. Generally, here are five things women hate to hear:
1. You are really getting fat: A woman knows when she is adding weight. I mean, she checks the mirror everyday, so she knows when her cheeks are getting too puffy or when her waistline is disappearing. Simply put, you don’t have to rub it in again…only encourage her to lose the weight. Don’t forget to tell her that she is always beautiful too…!
2. “Is it that time of the month?”: Okay, so the fact that scientists have proven that women get edgy when they are on their periods does not mean that you should attribute every of her actions to “that time of the month. Everytime you do that, you only make her seem irrational.
3. Cheesy pick-up lines: You know what I mean…doesn’t make any woman feel special in any way…
4. Hey [gorgeous, baby, mama, boo, etc...]: Most women do not respond well to strangers who start off by calling them baby, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, babe, dear, or any other condescending and objectifying term.
5. “My ex used to love it when I…”: Well, you should get over your ex before going into another relationship. Comparing a woman to your ex is one thing you definitely can do to spoil her day!
Never forget, words hurt…and are memorable too. So try as much as possible to treat your woman in a special way with your words…
I forgot to add this: “I am broke” lol
Source: Naijaurban
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